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Originally Posted by $$$$$$$$$
Its okay to be direct, cause thats what i need. A wake-up call, youre right, this special occasion is the days where they can have the grand opportunity
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It's quite timely you posted on this because i know i myself get into this rut as well sometimes. A wake-up call is always handy.
It's like you know the rules of the game, you know you shouldn't get any feelings from it but visiting a girl multiple times just left that something in your heart and it doesn't feel good sometimes. And i sometimes ask myself will i be willing to indulge and do the same as that other ah sia kia who can do it a whim? It's not that i don't have the moolah to do so, but is it worth it? Will she appreciate it? End of the day, if i feel that the girl is truly appreciative and we have a good time maybe i will do it, but if i feel that she is not going to see me any different i can't bring myself to do so. Good that i'm stingy in that way lol.
You gotta try distance yourself sometimes, if you had been too attached. Start by stopping the habit if you can and save some money for a while. Or to go find some other girl you feel suits your taste as well and get your attention away. Then it may actually become clearer to you that this is all furtile thinking on your end.